Who are your current most favorite people?
As Christians, our relationships and affections are often a reflection of our faith and values. When asked, “Who are your current most favourite people?”, it’s a wonderful opportunity to pause and reflect on the priorities that shape our lives.
For most of us, the answer naturally begins with God, followed by family and others. This progression isn’t just a cultural norm; it is a biblical alignment that reflects God’s design for a meaningful and purpose-filled life.
1. God: The First and Foremost
The greatest commandment, as Jesus taught, is to “love the Lord your God with all your heart, soul, and mind” (Matthew 22:37). God is not just a “person” in our lives; He is the ultimate source of love, grace, and purpose.
Making God our first love is more than a duty—it is a privilege. Through prayer, worship, and studying His Word, we deepen our relationship with Him. When God becomes our favorite, our lives gain clarity. He becomes the anchor of our decisions, the comfort in our trials, and the source of unshakable hope.
When God is first, everything else in our lives falls into its rightful place. He empowers us to love others genuinely and prioritize relationships with wisdom.
2. Family: Our God-Given Circle
The second greatest commandment, “Love your neighbor as yourself” (Matthew 22:39), finds its most immediate application in our families. Spouses, children, parents, and siblings are the first “neighbors” God entrusts to us.
Family is a gift from God, a training ground for love and forgiveness. When we cherish and honor them, we reflect the love of Christ. As Paul instructs in Ephesians 5 and 6, husbands and wives are to love and respect one another, parents are to nurture their children in the Lord, and children are to honor their parents.
But let’s be honest—family relationships are not always easy. That’s where God’s grace comes in. Loving our family in difficult moments often draws us closer to God, reminding us to lean on His wisdom and strength.
3. Others: Reflecting Christ to the World
Beyond God and family, the Bible calls us to extend love to others. This includes friends, colleagues, neighbors, and even strangers. As Christians, we are called to be the salt and light of the world (Matthew 5:13-16). How we treat others is a reflection of our relationship with God.
Jesus modeled this perfectly. He loved sacrificially, served humbly, and forgave endlessly. When we put others ahead of ourselves, we emulate His example. Whether it’s through a kind word, an act of service, or simply being present, we honor God by loving those around us.
But what about difficult people? Jesus said, “Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you” (Matthew 5:44). Loving others isn’t conditional; it’s a demonstration of God’s unconditional love flowing through us.
Why This Order Matters
Putting God first, family second, and others third is not just a spiritual principle—it is a practical framework for balanced living. When our priorities align with God’s design, our relationships thrive. God provides the love we pour into our families, and from the overflow, we bless others.
In moments of reflection, consider who your “most favourite people” are. Are they aligned with God’s priorities for your life? Let this be a reminder to recalibrate, if necessary, and deepen your relationships in the order that brings glory to Him.
Conclusion
Ultimately, our love for God, family, and others is an interconnected journey. The love we receive from God fuels our love for family and others. When these relationships are grounded in God’s Word, they flourish and point others to Christ.
So, who are your most favourite people? Let your answer be a testimony of your faith, rooted in God’s love, and shining His light into the world.
The Message Bearer, Cornelius Bella
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