Have you ever felt like you’re drifting apart from your spouse, even though you’re right there beside each other? You’re not the only one. Many couples experience times of loneliness in their marriage, and it can be tough. But there’s a glimmer of hope. The wisdom from God’s Word offers some practical ways to bridge that gap and bring you closer again.
The first step is recognizing what might be causing the distance. Often, it’s a lack of communication. Life gets busy, and we forget to share our thoughts and feelings with each other. The Bible reminds us to “be humble and gentle, be patient with each other, and make allowances for each other’s faults because of your love” (Ephesians 4:2). Taking the time to listen without judgment and asking thoughtful questions can go a long way in reconnecting.
Take a look at your routines and priorities too. Are you spending quality time together? For husbands, it’s about showing love without being harsh (Colossians 3:19), and for wives, it’s about showing respect (Ephesians 5:33). So, put away distractions and genuinely engage in shared activities and conversations. These moments can really help bring back that sense of closeness.
Don’t underestimate the power of kind words and actions. The Bible reminds us that “two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed” (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10). Compliments, small acts of service, and physical affection are simple but impactful ways to remind your spouse that you care deeply for them.
And above all, don’t forget to pray together. Turning to God can help fill the gaps in your relationship. “Give all your worries and cares to God, for he cares about you” (1 Peter 5:7). Strengthening your faith together, through reading the Bible and attending church, can create a stronger bond between you both.
If you’re still struggling, seeking guidance from a pastor or counselor who shares your faith can be really beneficial. Remember, the God who brought you together is there to guide you through these challenges and bring back the joy in your relationship.
The Message Bearer, Cornelius Bella
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